Ok, so I've been wasting most of my time on Firefox abusing the StumbleUpon feature, and it seems people have their knickers in a twist over sex education (or the lack thereof, as their blog posts bitch) and the use of condoms.
I'd like to offer the flipside argument to their constant bitching about "anyone under the age of 30 has absolutely no education about sex", "abstinence doesn't work" and "EEEEEEEEEW USE A CONDOM, I'M NOT GETTING A RASH JUST BECAUSE YOU SAID YOU LOVE ME!"
I have to be honest. This pisses me the fuck off. I am a virgin. I will remain that way until my wedding night, I assure you. And you're telling me that you don't have the fucking backbone to say "no"? You say "no" to a baby's right to live. You say "no" to a Christian's right to freedom of speech. You say "no" to pretty much anything you don't like. Except sex.
And I'm the one that's warped? In a world where scoring with that hot girl down the street is the best accomplisment you can achieve for your life, and all you care about is where to get your next slug of booze, I'm the one that's warped?
Since when is saying "no" to sex a bad thing? If we all had just a *little* bit of self control, and kept our tab A's and slot B's in our pants, we wouldn't NEED condoms. Or birth control pills. We wouldn't HAVE STD's, AIDS and HIV's. And I'm the one that's warped?
I'm the girl who becomes friends with her man first. I'm the girl who sits down and talks about her dreams, desires and goals for her life. I'm the girl who's damn lucky enough to find a guy who actually respects her dreams and goals, and who will HELP her achieve them. I told him I wanted to wait. He's down with that. He respects me for that. Even when I'm hormonal and in the mood, he says "no" too. And you know what? THAT'S what's normal. THAT is what's up.
I'm waiting till marriage, bitches. And when we get down, I'm not getting plugged up with rubber.
2 comments:
Amen sista! The greatest reply I ever had to my last boyfriend being annoyed with my puritanical attitude towards sex (his view), was that "Feeling good is not a sin, and you can't go by one man's interpretation of scripture!" What he was saying was that sex without actual intercourse is okay (and not REALLY sex) because it feels nice, and Martin Luther didn't know what he was talking about.
Because Jesus sayin' just LOOKING at a woman lustfully is adulterous doesn't mean anything, don't you know. (and yes, Colin really did say that. This was right before I dumped his ass for being a moron).
-Cath
Anne is da f***ing bomb. Don't be messin' wit my sistah.
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